Tag: past
Wild Thing, Are You Stuck In Self Pity?
Are you stuck in self pity? Do you feel like your life would be different if they did “x”, or didn’t do “y”, or “z” never happened to you?
Life is tough. Sh*t happens. But if you are stuck in a place of self pity then you are wasting precious energy focusing on the past.
What would it take for you to let go of that thinking? Is the suffering worth the story you are holding onto? Are you wanting a life free of self-pity? Are you longing to write a new life story?
One reason we stay in self-pity is that we don’t know of another way. We never learned the skills required to process our experiences, let go of the past, and shift our thinking.
If you are over the draining thoughts of self-pity, and you are ready to take action to rediscover that sacred wild woman who shakes off the past and embraces the present moment with courage and vibrance, then private message me. We’ll explore where you are, where you want to go, and how we can get you there. You are worthy!
Going Forward
This is a poem I wrote that was published in the 2016 in the We’Moon Date Book.
So often, after having survived toxic relationships there is a gnawing fantasy of going into the past and choosing differently.
We wish we left sooner, or we wish we chose a different partner, or we wish we had said or done something differently.
While we were in the relationship, we became an emotional contortionist attempting to keep everyone happy. The only thing our maneuvering did was to give us a false sense of control, suck every last drop of energy from us, and perhaps prove to ourselves that we gave the relationship our best try.
Then, finally, we let go. At least physically. Unfortunately, parts of our emotional or mental body hang on to the past.
There is no stepping into the past–It is a waste of time and energy to fixate there. We can only move forward.
If you are finally ready to sever the cords that bind you to the past, and want to seriously change your life, then private message me to schedule a discovery call. You are worthy.
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