Are You Ready To Release Those Things That Hold You Back From Your Vibrance?

The ego is the part of us that works to protect us from death.

While avoiding physical death is a good thing, avoiding the death of a behavior, or identity that no longer serves us is detrimental. The ego’s fear prevents us from releasing parts of ourselves that no longer serve our evolution.

The ego is afraid of letting any part of us fall away because it views that falling away as death.

From a physical standpoint there are healthy fears that keep us safe from physical death (fear of jumping off of a bridge; fear of stepping into roaring flames, etc.), but the ego does not recognize the difference between physical death and the death of a past identity/behavior.

The ego fears change, period.

Learning to distinguish healthy fear, from the ego’s fear of change is an important first step in rediscovering our sacred wild self.

When we are able to connect with the divine, tap into our body’s wisdom, and learn to trust the process of letting go, then we begin the process of stepping into a fuller, more vibrant identity.

Breathe deeply. Feel deeply. Know deeply. And with faith, step boldly into your authentic, unshakeable self.

If you are seeking more guidance in this process, private message me. Blessings.

Repeating the Same Behavior Over and Over?

Do you find yourself showing up in situations repeating the same behavior over and over again? Do you wonder why you keep getting into the same relationship dynamics with different people? You know, the situations where you are giving everything, becoming an emotional contortionist to please them or not trigger them?

Are you frustrated by these patterns, but unclear as to why you keep attracting, and being attracted to this type of person?

We develop patterns of thinking and being over time, and when we want different results we need to look in the mirror. The common denominator in all of our relationships is ourself.

Why have we tolerated unacceptable behavior? Why do we find ourselves attracted to angry/needy/toxic people? Why does it feel more comfortable to be with someone unstable, than someone confident and kind?

Have you ever asked yourself these questions? Have you been searching for the answer? In order to find the answers to these questions you need to journey into yourself, perhaps all the way back to childhood.

It is time to learn another way. It is time to change thought patterns. It is time to shift from focusing outside of yourself, to focusing inside of yourself. If you want a change in your outer world, you must first focus on your inner world. It is time to devote yourself to you. You are worthy!